and also call the police to check the house for drugs....you can do that too...
This is very bad, very dangerous advice. Please don't do this. Trust me, I work in this arena and don't involve the police, unless you want masked soldiers throwing a flash granade through your front door at bedtime and holding automatic weapons on you and your family while they tear your house apart and take anything of value they can find.
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I would recommend giving him a deadline then flushing it yourself.
The more you focus on yourself and your feelings and your needs, the easier it'll be to not be afraid.