Originally Posted by ashley80
How can your bf really help you? By proving that he loves you? How can he do that? I'm sure he cares very much for you, but only you can help yourself by not using, and getting the support you need to stay clean.
Ashley
he could start by not smoking himself, or at least around me. we are supposed to be seeing his friends and all and he wants to leave me with his parents so he can go and smoke! i dont think this is helping... and then last night when i told him i wanted to go home and get help from mom and my family, he said.. no! please! i want to marry you, i want you to have my children... almost like a guilt trip. if i am unhappy here, and this is where it is all stemming from, then why the guilt trip?