^^^^I totally agree with Pelican....this is normal with OUR self esteem...take the time for you..do what is best for you...how about a good book? some friends you have not seen in awhile., call them, go for coffee or a movie...I listen to music...FULL BLAST and dance the nite away with my kids...<<they got there beloved dads MOVE and MOE JOE...
I say stop all contact..he has DONE you a favor...and yes its a waste of ENERGY...
let him have HIS BED AND LIE IN IT!!!
B@ST@RD!