Originally Posted by katie28

Oh that reminds me, when I saw him the other night he said that he isn't excited to see me anymore which is why he feels he isn't actively in love with me. He said that he doesn't get the butterflies in the stomach. I dont know about you but after 4 years your partner is more like a limb, something that is just part of you. The butterflies are in the honeymoon period when its all so new and exciting. Does anyone agree? The fact that he wants these butterflies to me is a sign that he is always looking for that 'craving' that he feels for the drugs and alcohol and if he doesn't have that physical response then there must be something wrong. Thoughts?