My husband has been drinking heavily on the weekends since we were married 14 years ago Sept. 21st.......But I do admit that being an enabler I have not been good for the marriage either and it may be too late even if he would stop drinking and using. Our love has eroded away a little at a time. Last night after about 5 beers he was looking out the window, then sitting down, then getting up to look out the window again, when my son asked him what he was looking at and then kiddingly said "stalker". This would be a normal father and son teasing moment, except my husband responded to my son: "Hey Jack Ass, don't ever call me that again!" I was in the other room and heard the tone, but not the words, so later I asked my son about it. He wouldn't have reacted that way if there wasn't beer involved.....breaks my heart