told him
I told him I needed him to remove the mj from the premises of our property, he said what MJ? I told him where I found it and he got defensive, he even moved it. Then he responded with "You don't tell me what to do, it's not alot, you don't know how many people have it in their home, I have been using it since before I met you, Don't worry about it, you have other things to worry about, we said I would wait until after soccer season to move out, so watch it, it may be sooner, etc."
He finally said he would have it removed by tomorrow morning when he goes to work. Do I tell him to get rid of it today and so that I can see that it is removed? This is soooo hard especially when our 13 year old is in the house and I don't want him to hear....