Originally Posted by
sesh 
That is the very question that kept quite a few of us here stuck year after year in our relationships with A. In agony.
Yes, really what if?
Life is long, and if he is serious than this should not be a one time offer, do the right thing today and let the time do its work.
But I think the more imortant question is:
What if doesn't really mean it?
What than?
Are you willing to take that risk?
I wish I could hit "Thanks" on this post twice.
Time will tell if he's truly willing to heal, until that time, read, cry, al anon, friends, movies, dinners, more friends and take care of YOU!