Originally Posted by
coyote21 
May be tell him you and the other womans husband are going away for the weekend to discuss what has happened. See what his response is?
Thanks and God bless us all,
Coyote
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The other womans husband was so distraught that he sent me a text message saying that he and i should have sex to get back at them... I replied that as much as i understand how he feels and that I have thought of ways to hurt my b/f and had thoughts of doing it... that we cannot allow their horrible actions to dicate our own. And that i choose not to stoop to their level. He replied that he respects that and understands, but "thought it was worth a try".
My b/f saw that text. It didn't upset him to badly at all - but that's because he saw my reply to him...and i guess it "comforted" him that i wouldnt do it?