Originally Posted by
suki44883 
His sponsor is telling us "we should be living together to work thru this" and that as long as he begins his steps again... everything is going to be ok.
Did you hear his "sponsor" say that, or did he just say his "sponsor" said that? Sorry, but I have a VERY difficult time believing a real AA sponsor would say those words. If he really did, then he either doesn't know the true story or he isn't much of a sponsor. A sponsor's job is to try to keep his sponsee sober, not micromanage his love life. This all just sounds like a huge con job to me.
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You're right. It is HIM telling me that this is what his sponsor said. I've thought of that. He is currently at this 'silent' retreat in Kentucky *with his sponsor*. However is CONSTANTLY texting and calling. He called all of 15 minutes ago. Now, I don't know if this was a good idea or not - but I told him this:
"The next call I get, should be from your sponsor."
His reply was a very energetic and happy OK!!
I guess I'll now be getting that call soon.