Originally Posted by
DrivingVacation Quick little update: I also paid for this party unknowingly.
That makes me want you to get through this weekend even more.
Next week, perhaps you could make an appointment with a neutral third party (i.e., a counselor) to talk about your relationship with your girlfriend. I'm getting from other people's posts and from your posts that there's a lot more going on in this relationship than this one incident. Take it from me, bad relationships (both romantic and otherwise) can put a severe strain on staying sober.
I'm not going to say more. I don't really know you, and I've never seen firsthand the things that go on in your relationship. It sounds like something is going on here, though, and I think you need to get some perspective on it so you can know how to handle it.
You have my support on this trying weekend.