just a thought .. if you paid for the booze shouldnt you be able to do with it what you like .. ? like pouring it all down the drain , takin your check book and cards what ever and putting them outta reach for her to do more . and tell them you dont drink there for you dont enable others to do the same , If they wish to drink then buy it them selfs , I know I dont buy anyone a drink .. Why would I .. I dont drink !