Hey DV. . .
I read this last night, but was too tired to post after my class.
I am really sorry GF is doing this. It is one thing to be around someone drinking, it one thing for someone you live with to have their own stuff in the house. That is part of this world, and as you said, we are the ones witht the problem.
However, at this point in your sobriety, i believe this is more than you should need to face. this isn't just going out with friends and being at a bar, or a wedding or whatever. This isn't your GF having some wine at night. . .to me, it is affront to you, and an invasion of you home and an in your face act against your sobriety.
You are important, and you deserve to be sober. I want you to do whatever it takes this weekend. ..go to a hotel, go to a friends. . .hell, go out of town. And go to meetings. Even if you are not working the program at the moment, being around sober recovering alcoholics can only help you through.
I'm praying for you.
Stay strong and stay sober.
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