Welcome to the SR family!
You will find lots of support and information here. We understand what it is like living with addiction.
I am posting a link from one of our sticky (permanent) posts located at the top of the forum. I also recommend reading in the stickies, they contain some of our stories and lots of wisdom.
Here is a link to some steps that have helped us:
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...l-problem.html