Old 09-07-2010, 09:33 AM
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nodaybut2day
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Originally Posted by Bucyn View Post
Block the number, delete the texts, and if he gets through on another number that isn't blocked, just hang up as soon as you know it's him.
Originally Posted by Bucyn View Post
Harassment is not love. Stalking is not love. Calling 100 times a day is not love. Love is very different.
Originally Posted by Bucyn View Post
He's trying to force you into being what he wants you to be, ignoring what you are. That's not love. If he loved you, he'd let you go. He can't let you go because he believes he owns you.
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As soon as he finds someone else to cater to his neediness, he'll drop you like a hot rock.
Bucyn, you're the man! Or, um, the woman.

Alejandra...it seems that your relationship with this person is like an addiction...you keep going back for more even though you know it's toxic for you. If you think of it this way, it's a lot easier to force yourself to remain in NO CONTACT. Your strategy of coming to SR everytime he calls or texts is a great one! I did the same thing when I left my X husband.

Keep reading and posting here. And have his number/email blocked; you'll sleep better.
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