Yes, it's Semantics. When, where, how, how much he gets to drink. Doesn't it drive you crazy? What a chess game.
I feel obligated to wait and see how it goes, but I'm not sure what I'm waiting for.
Ugh. I did this while living with my AH. Then I left. I still do it sometimes now-the waiting to see what will happen part-even though we're living apart.
For me the best news is, even though I"m slow to completly let AH go, I'm also getting a life while slowly holding boundaries. I know a lot of other women my age who get divorced and go get tattoos. Get drunk. Me, I started a newspaper. I like my life now, even though it's not perfect, and that's because I'm doing what is most important to me--working on myself, gaining more income and a name for myself with my business, improving my long neglected relationships with my children and myself.