Hi Maggie,
Thanks so much for your feedback..I have learned to let him do the recovery, I support him, only when he chooses to be well and not actively using...(not financially, emotionally) its hard to see him like this, but i know only he can ultimately change it.. tonite I drove him to a sober house which is one step... but do you think Im overstepping my boundaries now that he is married..shouldn't his wife be doing this?