OMG Bolina, thank you! I read that and not much has changed for him, he's still conning everyone ... but I am more calm, I love having my granddaughters living with me and I'm really willing to accept the losses I will lose. I had separation papers drawn up last Sept. when he left me, that $80,000 was his retirement to which I am entitled to half ... so yes, I did find out all my legal right, just should have went ahead with the divorce then ... stupid me
