[QUOTE=khenry;2697503] So next Wednesday I will have to bring up the subject of how his newborn son will affect his recovery, and what i should and shouldnt do to help.
To me, you need to be seeing it as 'how his recovery will affect his newborn son'.
If he does not work really hard on it, then his son will suffer. End of.
Whats hard is that in this situation, we have no control.
You have control of it. You really do.
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