Originally Posted by
cherrie1 
Our relationships are strained right now and I am hoping they can someday be normal again.
They will if/when everyone owns their own stuff, and not accept others issues or assign them. If relationships are strained right now, it's because everyone is doing the codie waltz to an out of tune orchestra. That probably means 'normal' wasn't all that healthy to begin with :-/
It sounds like your son is owning his stuff, stepping away from his dance with the devil and doing the next right thing. Kudos to him
