Welcome to the SR family!
We're glad you are here. You will find loads of support and information. Make yourself at home by reading and posting as much as needed.
One of the tools that helped me deal with my partners addiction was the 3 C's:
I did not Cause it
I can not Control it
I will not Cure it
The addiction belongs to the addict. So does the recovery.
I have found support here and at Alanon meetings. With support I have been able to start taking better care of myself. I am taking control of the only life within my control: Mine. It feels good.
Let us know how we can help you!