Thank you tormentedmirror, I realize how easy miscommunication is on the internet. And THANK YOU everyone else, the advice has really helped. It's great to know there are people who understand, no one else in my life has ever had to deal with this. The next al-anon meeting in my town isn't until thursday, so it's nice to know I have people to talk to who understand. It means so much to me, thank you again.
