Thanks everyone for your thoughts! He is only back living with me about 6 weeks. He's been working, going to school...but staying out quite late...which leads me to believe somethings going on. I confronted him today...he of course says he's just fine. I told him I loved him and that I am here for him. I asked him if he has relapsed (I told him to be honest with me before things get out of his control - he can go back on the Suboxone if need be)...he of course became furious with me and didnt speak to me the rest of the day. I try so hard with this kid and he just pushes me away. I dont know what approach to take with him anymore. He just doesnt seem to want to hear anything I have to say. I get the feeling he just hates my guts and I dont know why. I try so hard.