Hope for something more....
I spent the evening watching my oldest son's football game. Quite an exciting night actually. I talked to a few friends and acquaintances....and I had a sudden realization - that people make it through this. They suffer and then they put the pieces back together again. One lady I was talking to is divorced and her husband was an A, we were talking and it was amazing the similarities in behaviors. Another person also divorced has a good relationship w/ his X and his kids are doing well. I guess I have made divorce such a bad word that i felt like i could never do it...but people survive, they take steps forward, and eventually find happinses again. I needed this tonight....I needed hope for something more....