It's a mothers heart. You want to protect and save your children no matter how old they are. It's just impossible to save him from himself. You have to let your son go, and grow on his own. I'm sorry about the loss of your other 2 children. Life isn't easy. If your son loses his own place, it would be best that you don't take him in again. He has to learn how to be a man, and pay his own bills. Sorry, but it's the truth. I had to tell my 29year old son that he couldn't live with me. Otherwise he will never grow up.