Welcome to the SR family!
You will find loads of information and support here. Please make yourself at home by reading and posting as much as needed.
Some of our stories are in the permanent (sticky) posts at the top of this forum. I always find wisdom that someone has shared in those threads.
This is a link that shares some steps that have helped us while dealing with an active alcoholic:
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...l-problem.html