Good Morning Wacko: Sometimes it takes me awhile for things to sink in.If I think long enough I come up for some good things.I had a young man who was into pot and maybe a few other things,he was quite and didn't have many friends.One night he called for help ,it seems his father exposed him in school and his peers where very angry with his father ,but took it out on him.He was at a point of realy hurting himself.I put my arms around him and held him for many hours,him crying,and me praying ,Before the night was over he was stable,he also knew I was there for him anytime he needed to talk,and also knew God loved him also,and would be there.Things were very hard for about a year.He graduated from high school.He joined the forces,is home from Korea now and has bought him a new truck.He no longer uses and knows God is always there along with his Grandma the x-drunk.I hope you can get some of this and use it for the good.Fill those empty holes with LOVE and YOUR HP. Old Lady N Shoe