This time last year was a nightmare for me. My husband was driving and drinking every day. It was insane. In the fall he came home drunk three days in a row. I'm surprised that he didn't have a wreck. On the fourth day I prayed that he not come home again drunk but if he did let it be that day. He did. I put him to bed and called my attormey and made an appointment for the next morning and went and filed. My divorce was final in Jan. I am thankful that I finally mustered up the courage to do what I should have done years ago. Life is much better now. I had turned into someone that I didn't even know. Now I'm working on getting "me" back. I've been in Alanon for over a year and that is one of the best things I have done. I also went to a counselor, started going back to church and doing other activities that I had stopped because of him. I'm very thankful to be on this side of the madness.