Ann, I have felt the same way and my prayers have encompassed the understanding that only God knows what is best for him. And yes it is between my son and God - I've prayed that if prison is where that person or experience or whatever is then that is certainly where he needs to be. It still, as I know everyone here knows, is so hard to face, when I think that only two short years ago I was thinking things would work out so differently. But it is what it is - and staying in the moment will bring things back to a balance. You are all so great to listen compassionately and reach out in understanding.