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Welcome USER
This sounds like you are going need some serious "tough love"
If you want the truth about your AAH (abusive alcoholic husband) and your relationship - then read and post all can here, go to meetings, make yourself stronger to fight.
But you if just want to how to get the man 'that scares" you back - that's a different forum.
However - he'll be back - they always come back.
Find strength