He's halfway across the country, living at his parent's house. Just coming to get it really isn't an option. Now, if he has to come down for mediation, then maybe they'll load up a truck and take it back. There are some pieces of furniture that are family pieces, and I have plenty of space, it's just psychological.
I had planned to ship it all to him in one fell swoop, using a moving pod or maybe ABF. But I only want to do it once, and if there's big stuff he gets in the divorce (tractor, etc), it will need to go with everything else.
Don't get me wrong, I'm SO glad he can't just show up here.