I don't need another house! We moved out of that one over 2 years ago, and I haven't been able to sell it this whole time. I stupidly (heh) put his name on the title of the present house (Mr No Income didn't factor into the loan), and now I'm going to have to refinance it to get his name off.
Anyway, I rented the extra house for awhile, but being a landlord just meant I wasn't loosing *as much* money. I will probably have to take out a loan to get rid of that house, but it's worth it. Oh well. And yes, I'm happy about the mediator. Even though it still leaves me in limbo, it's a sign that it will be over eventually. Ug.
You know, I really want to ship his stuff to him, but only want to do it once - I want my garage back! (I will re-consolidate it all again into a new pile. That will make me feel better.)
I think I just need to stomp around some. That will help too. It's just so blasted hot outside, I can't spend much time out in the garage reorganizing.