At least interest rates are down. If you are going to use the money to buy another house. . .well the price of that house will be down too. That was the only thing that kept me from blowing steam out of my ears because we had refinanced the house the year before I filed to roll in all the debt accrued since stbxah was paying bills with credit card checks! See, he is an idiot.
Hope the house sells TODAY and that you are far from upside down when it is sold.
Fantastic that you have a great mediator. YAY!