helping me admit that this relationship is doomed. It doesn't matter why we fought this time, the silence has allowed me' to focus and gain clarity.
I haven't been a peach either. For 13 years I've made him feel like he wasn't good enough (because he wasn't) but I would tell him I love him all the time. I was also sending mixed messages. I realize that I have work to do on myself too.
IMO,
INeverImagined, NONE of this is even about HIM. It is ALL about YOU--what YOU want for YOUR
One Precious Life. Once you really, really believe this in your heart, getting away from him is EASY and you stop beating yourself up about the past and you stop trying to figure things out. I am so very glad that you have gotten to this crossroads in your life. Because there is so much beauty and excitement in this world that you will NEVER experience stuck in a relationship with a dopehead dragging you down. Ugh, just THINKing about it makes me tired.