I've been divorced for several months from my XAH. It was the right thing for me. He's still drinking...wants to get back together...not a chance. I do miss him and see him some but I do not want to get sucked back into the drama of his addiction.
Back when we went to counseling we were told that we should go to marriage counseling after he was sober for a year. Of course that year never came.
You can support his recovery without living with him. Good luck to you.