Originally Posted by
outtolunch 
Why would anyone who lost, say 100 pounds, looked and felt terrific, pick up the Haagen Daz, again? And yet it is said that most people who lose a significant amount of weight, relapse and gain it all back and then some.
The issue is within him and has nothing to do with you. If we could love anyone out of it, none of us would be here.
SO TRUE Outtolunch, Love is the answer to many things, but not to addiction. You hit the nail on the head. WHY is a very big word, even though it only has 3 letters in it.