Originally Posted by
DayDreamBelever 
But the first time he went out.... Why? That's part of what drives me nuts... well over 3 F'n years clean and he made the Very sober choice to go out that first time.
Why would anyone who lost, say 100 pounds, looked and felt terrific, pick up the Haagen Daz, again? And yet it is said that most people who lose a significant amount of weight, relapse and gain it all back and then some.
The issue is within him and has nothing to do with you. If we could love anyone out of it, none of us would be here.