We are in the same boat in many ways. That's what prompted me to join and post.
I think we are dealing with 2 different sorts of people though. I don't know what would be worse, someone who wanted me to continue to drink or someone who guilts me for it . Being guilt tripped and looked at with suspicion isn't anymore of a picnic than keeping the secret. I can't change what I've done, all I can do is NOT do it anymore. I have't been counting the days but I think its been somewhere around three weeks without a drink.
I have my own mantra these days "I am an alcoholic...not an axe murderer.."
