10 months? Wow!....
When people try to put me down....I find it best to
..."Your right"...and walk away.
Why your husband wants you to drink?
Pherhaps he does want his drinking buddy back
or
It makes him feel "less than" to see you win over alcohol
or
You allowed him more control making decisions when you drank
Just guessing here LT....but definately you changed the
balance of your marriage.