Originally Posted by
anvilhead 
you refer to the person as your romantic interest......um,,where's the romance for YOU? he's involved with alcohol and continues to staunchly defend that relationship..........which is HIS choice, his right. so what's in it FOR YOU? how are your needs getting met?
That's what I finally realized. I was no longer getting my needs met. I wasn't getting anything out of it anymore. It's over. I deserve better.