GOOD GOING, you can do it!..now take care of yourself. I too saw my exah the other day (he called the cops on me) and he looked very agitated, couldnt stand still and didnt listen to the police instructions at all. they had to tell him multiple times to get off the property,stop talking and get in the vehicle..I on the other hand stood there in control (I cried but that stopped) and I didnt react at all whereas a few months ago who knows what I would have done.
I thank this forum, my support meetings for this. You have to step back and stay clear away from the addict and live for YOU. I know its sad to see our loved ones looking like this, but living it with them truly isnt healthy for us and it certainly doesnt help them as much as we think it did.
Keep posting, go to meetings and give yourself time to heal.