I think actually he only agreed to this weekend because it is a half day seminar meeting. I think that I will tell him it is what I need to do for me- not about him....about how I am going to take care of me. I hope I can tell him without him getting angry. I am pretty emotionally fragile right now. Getting out of the house tonight for church.....calming, productive time. I love him lots but why does he have to make this ALAnon 2 hours a week so difficult.