I'd let him handle it. He did the crime. He was old enough to deal the pot, so he is old enough to get his own lawyer. When my bf's daughter went to jail for DWI, we did not bail her out or get her a lawyer. She was only 19, so it was hard not to do anything. Nobody bailed her out. She stayed in jail for 3 days, and then the judge let her go. She used a state-appointed attorney, and ended up getting probation and community service. I think that we did the best thing by keeping our hands off of her and letting her have to deal with the consequences of her actions.