Thanks again for all of your well wishes....Jazzman - yes, something changes when that anger and hatred is directed at an innocent child....somehow I saw how difficult it would be in the future with him in her face all the time degrading her....and I know that I don't want that for her...or for me quite frankly. I am going to just take it day by day for now...but I feel VERY VERY VERY steadfast in my decision that this is the way it has to be.