update from jeepgirl - I want to avoid a codie relapse
Hi old friends.
Feeling some twangs tonight. This month is my 5 year anniversary of attending naranon once a week. My AD has been clean for over 2 years. We are both very strongly working on our respective programs.
Slight glitch in my rosie picture... Her company closed, and she has been out of work for around a month. She has been living on her small severance package. Today she told me she has 5 dollars left in her bank account, and had to borrow cigarette money. Oy... I am afraid of ME relapsing, not her. She doesn't seem to be at all concerned or pounding the pavement. I payed her some money to paint a room in the house... its only halfway done - so I payed her half. This is beginning to feel familiar.
As much as I want to help her out, I have fears of stopping her growth if I do so. At my meetings, we concentrate on our own personal growth... but I would love to hit this sounding board to hear what I already know I must do.
Thanks all, jeepgirl