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Old 07-05-2010, 03:14 PM
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ReadyToHelp
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At least you did it!! Good for you! It's all about trying, taking the step.

So you didn't like him. It's ok. We all have attractions. It might not necessarily mean you need an A. You're allowed to not be attracted to a nice guy you had coffee with!

My friend's friend's husband's cousin is a "nice guy". But when I interrogated my friend further (she met him once a month ago and gave me a shallow description, not wanting to commit to an endorsement), I realized that it's ok to not want to go out with him. I'm not attracted to him from his description. It doesn't mean I need an A. It means just what it means. I probably won't like him. She didn't find him attractive at all. :-(

Lulu, good for you!

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