I do feel confident after posting tonight but i will definitely be seeking advice in the morning. i need to make the right choices now for us and stick with them this time
Yes, this is excellent.
His addiction is his problem, and not your responsibility at all.
And certainly not for your children to continue to witness.
You can do this. Get your local support. You will be amazed how much they want to help you.
I know how very hard it was for me to ask for help.
Once I did, a whole new world opened up.
I will be thinking of you and sending you some Irish-American strength!
Beth