OMG Kat, i am so sorry! what a shock. All we can do is thank HP for revealing what kind of a person he really is, u can be so thankful u weren't already married and then he did this and had a one night stand, i think that would be so much worse.. You are in a good position now, miles away from him, still have your cash u invested and minus one JERK. Keep strong, be good to yourself. The right man will come along at the right time, sometimes we just misread our emotions and don't always think clearly. Make a fresh start. Hugs and prayers xxx