Wow...
I will say one last thing then I am also leaving this thread alone as well.
To me it seemed the OP was looking for justification, and/or approval for the "unique" affair she was having with this guy. If not then why bother mentioning the affair at all?
Why not just ask her question about if someones feelings or emotions change when sobering up?
Just there seems to be a majority of women on this board coming to seek support because they have an alcoholic for a husband, and in some of those cases the husband is also running around cheating while giving in to his addiction. Just seemed to be a slap in the face type of post to me, then again I am a guy so yeah what should I know...If I was to harsh sorry. But there really isn't any way to sugar coat a turd.
I mean the title says it all "Affair with an alcoholic."
Why not just "wondering if sobering up effects a persons feelings." IT is called opening up a can of worms...
my 2 cents, I will leave it alone now.
