"I don't want to hurt anyone, and if he wants to be with me then he will do wht he has to, but I wouldn't want to be branded a homewrecker, because I don't want to be the cause of their split!"
Haven't you stopped to realize you're already a homewrecker? You haven't been caught, but you a wrecking havoc on this family. You are destroying these childrens lives. You are HURTING the children.. when they find out daddy has been cheating on mommy, do you think they'll be happy? Will that make them feel good?