thank you, I am trying to understand all of this, She can use the phone, and have calls. This has forced me to take a long look at myself, and to realize that she is not the only one that has a problem. I said that I would quit drinking when I found out about this, and when it came down to poring out the bottles, I thought to myself that i would just do it before she gets out. I have not quit, and I still drink almost every night. I have tried to stop, but I get depressed because I can't talk to her, so the logical solution for me is forget it have a drink, or as the case has been several drinks. I think I may need to look for some help myself. I am not sure if this is because of the situation, or something else. I did not drink everyday before this, only on the weekends, but when I did i got blitzed, I don't remember how i got home most nights. Do you all think i have a problem?
Thanks again,
Alan